In this webinar Tom will guide you through identifying and resolving

your own internal barriers to having truly extraordinary relationships.

The ability to have an extraordinary intimate relationship with another

person begins with being able to have an extraordinary intimate

relationship with yourself. This is because just about all problems in

relationships are based on inner conflicts within each person in the

relationship. You may have noticed at times in your life that

you will have an insight or breakthrough about yourself and it will

seem that everything around you changes as a result of that breakthrough.

Although it seems like most of the problems you experience in your relationship appear to be caused by your partner, very often, when we change something inside of ourselves, our partner appears to change too. It seems that our partner’s ability to relate to us is to a large degree a reflection of our own state of being. The resistance that our partner seems to be displaying to changing and being the way that we would like them to be is often the very resistance to owning and resolving something similar within ourselves.

You may not like reading the last paragraph. You are so sure that it is your partner. Certainly you may not like something about your partner’s behavior, some way that he or she treats you, or an attitude or judgment they have, or some inconsiderate or addictive behavior, etc.  Certainly there is a need to change on their part. But who’s the other participant in this relationship?

In order to have a truly great relationship, guess who has to be a great person? You cannot attract and keep a great person in your life unless that’s what you are – a great person! Everyone has their own personal greatness. Typically it is lying dormant inside buried under layers of conditioning. Usually it is so covered up that most people have lost touch with it. This might be so much the case for you that you have trouble imagining that it could even be true. But if you think about it, you can probably find times in your life when you have seen someone who you thought of as great and either been jealous or wished that you could be great too.

The kind of greatness that we are talking about that lies inside of you is not going to make you be like anyone else, it’s a greatness that is unique to you. However, when it comes to relationships, there are certain characteristics of being great that great people in great relationships do have in common. They will express those in their own unique way but the basic attributes are grounded in the same principles.

This book is designed to help you systematically identify and remove the conditioning that covers up your own personal greatness. It is also designed to help you to learn how to live from that place of greatness in new ways that will allow you to attract a great partner or have your current partner show up as great (maybe).

If you are already in a relationship one of two things will likely happen as you begin to uncover your inner greatness. Either your partner will also grow with you and begin to uncover their own personal greatness too, or if your with a partner who is too deeply identified with their conditioning and unwilling to do the work to remove their own inner conflicts, then the relationship may not last.

One of the attributes of being a great person is that you don’t settle for anything less than greatness in your own relationships. Another attribute of personal greatness is that you become self-sufficient. This means that in every way you are capable of taking care of yourself. As you will see, you will uncover the qualities within yourself that will allow you to be emotionally self-reliant and independent.

You are going to be learning that the basis of your own personal inner conflicts is truly the basis of the conflicts in your relationship. Consequently, as you resolve your own inner conflicts this will provide a whole new foundation for your relationship. To the extent that you resolve your own inner conflicts, you can show up as a completely different person in all of your relationships. Although the focus of this program is primarily on intimate relationships, people who read this book and practice the techniques will discover that they naturally experience very positive influences on all their relationships.

The Problems Come from Our Conditioning

Our inner conflicts are based on our childhood conditioning. One interesting thing about childhood conditioning is that much of it occurs before we have developed language skills. This means that the influence of early experiences become our conditioned ways of being and primarily register as emotions or feelings rather than as words or ideas. Traditionally, it has been difficult to change the influence of conditioning and it can feel like stuff that we just have to live with for the rest of our lives.

But now with the development of the new emerging field called Human Software Engineering and The Core Dynamics of Human Conditioning, it is possible to identify and remove the energy patterns that have been holding your conditioned responses in place within you. This means that it is now possible to wipe out the basis of your inner conflicts that interfere with your relationships just about as easily as running anti-virus software on your computer. And it’s fast. Sometimes it only takes seconds or just a minute or two to use the techniques that you will learn in this webinar.

The focus of this program is on having extraordinary intimate relationships. Whether you have an intimate partner now or you are looking for one, this program is designed to help you attract or transform your relationships from being the expression of your conditioned responses, to being the expression of unconditional love, compassion and enjoyment.

We'll be identifying and resolving the highest priority inner barriers that have been getting in your way of having the relationship of your dreams!